Road-Tested Love: Lessons from Lifelong Adventurers

Heart Rock JoshuaTree National Park

There's something about the open road that invites unexpected inspiration. This time, it came in the form of two incredible couples—one in their 80s, the other in their 70s. They weren't just fellow RVers; they were living proof that adventure doesn't retire and love doesn't just endure—it thrives. Like a cool drink of water on a scorching day or a perfectly aged glass of wine after a long haul, their presence was equal parts refreshing and intoxicating.

Today, Tim and I celebrate our 42nd wedding anniversary. That's four decades of love, laughter, and plenty of curveballs, and we're proud of every single mile we've traveled together. But meeting these couples? It felt like an invitation to dream bigger, love harder, and keep blazing our own trail. With 56 and 63 years of marriage behind them, they've become the kind of legends you can't help but look up to. Their stories didn't just inspire; they poured life into us. This is what's possible when you take on life as a team.

What's Their Secret Sauce?

Here's the thing: these couples didn't coast into their golden years. They didn't choose the easy roads or let fear dictate their journey. They took risks, faced hardships, and worked their butts off—together. Watching them, listening to their stories, and soaking in their energy, here's what I learned:

They Take Life by the Horns—Together

These couples didn't shy away from life's toughest challenges. They've weathered hardships, setbacks, and challenges. The way they talk about it, the hard stuff wasn't something to fear—it was something to conquer. They didn't wait for the "right moment" or perfect circumstances. They acted, adjusted, and figured it out as they went. Together.

They Are Teammates in Every Sense

The bond between these two couples was evident as I listened to their stories—every step intentional, every move in sync. They shared the load and leaned on each other's strengths. They tackled it all as a unit. No egos, no keeping score—just mutual respect, trust, and a sense of humor that carried them through.

They Stay Curious and Active

It's easy to see where their energy comes from: they keep moving. They're always in motion, whether hiking, jeeping, or exploring new places. 

They Embrace the Adventure of Marriage

For these couples, it did not appear marriage was just a commitment; it is an ongoing adventure. They treat their relationship like a road trip—full of detours, unexpected stops, and breathtaking views. And just like RVing, it requires maintenance, patience, and a willingness to navigate the rough patches.  

Inspiration for the Road Ahead

Meeting these couples was like finding a treasure map, guiding us toward what's possible when you refuse to settle for less than extraordinary. Their stories remind us that the best things in life come from stepping outside your comfort zone, taking risks, and doing it all side by side with your partner.

So here's to the next 20+ years of adventure with you Tim. And here's to all of you reading this—whether you're just starting your journey or decades into it. Embrace the challenges, tackle the unknown, and keep choosing each other. Because life, like the open road, is better when you're in it together.